How are you? Chris told me that you two were friends, when he and I started dating, and that you got upset when he told you that we were seeing eachother. I had an idea that you must have been more than friends, and eventually the truth came out about your relationship with Chris...mostly over drunken conversations. I just wanted to hear your side of the story...as far as what happened and what you have heard from Chris since then....because some things aren't quite adding up at the moment. He had some good and bad things to say about you....but it doesn't make sense....especially if it lasted a long period of time.
After reading this email, I just didn't even know what to think. My first thought was to call him and tell him to keep his chick in check. The second thought, was what bad things did he have to say about me. I had a moment of weakness and probed her via myspace about the "bad things" he said. After a few minutes, I had a change of heart and wrote her new email which simply said, "actually, i don't care. i'm not involved." To which, she replied, "you two still talk don't you, you are already involved aren't you??" Um, we haven't talked in 3 months. I have no idea why she thinks we do.
After some clarity, I copy and pasted the message and emailed it to him. I said simply that she had contacted me and that I didn't want to be involved at all in the situation. I feel so violated actually. I'm living my fucking new life. With new experiences and a whole new attitude. I'm angry that she ruined that for me. I'm still getting over Chris. I was in love with him. He said bad things about me according to her. What the fuck? I didn't do anything bad to him. He knows that. And now I'm here wondering and questioning everything. Why the fuck did she message me? I would never ever talk to an ex-girlfriend about my current bf. If she thought she was going to get some "inside info" she's wrong. I feel as if she doesn't respect the boundaries of the "relationship" Chris and I shared. What happened between us doesn't concern her. Moreover, she can ask him. She probably did. He probably lied, or told her some soft version of the story. She knows he's not telling the truth, so she asks me. Honey, if you aren't satisfied with his answer, then that should tell you about the kind of person he is. I have never asked an ex-girlfriend for info. And, I wouldn't divulge any.
Naturally, I cancelled my myspace for the final time. I was doing so well too. Now, I have all night to get through. If you are reading this and have an opinion, please leave a comment. I'm interested in what you think.